Who Else Wants to Know How To Make Your Boyfriend Want You More ? 

Our curiosities are aroused as soon as we begin reading Bob Grant’s book, The Women Men Adore…And Never Want to Leave. Billing himself as, “The Relationship Doctor,” Bob Grant is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who has penned a book that will appeal to many. If you are a single, divorced, or widowed woman in a typical relationship in the 21st century, you most likely spend at least some of your time wondering how to make your boyfriend want you more. 

Grant has set out to inform women everywhere, not only what they are doing wrong, but how to do it right when it comes to securing your relationship with your man for life. Now, before you get all up in arms about how it is that a man can tell women how to best relate to their men, there are a couple of things you need to know.

Firstly, the author tells you right away he does not believe the fault of a failing or unhealthy relationship lies solely with women. Next, he identifies what his professional experience as a counselor has indicated: women just tend to care more about their heterosexual relationships than men do. So, Grant’s premise is basically that if you are the woman who frets about how to make your boyfriend want you more, this book will provide you with a blueprint of what you must do.

 The naysayers are bound to question Grant’s approach in Women Men Adore. If Grant is truly interested in cultivating healthy love relationships between men and women, why not write a book for men about how putting in the effort to have a healthy relationship will pay off for them? However, read the entire book before you discount Grant’s unique advice on how women can skillfully use their softer sides to charm and “disarm” men.

 One of the major points Grant makes to women is that many men experience vulnerability, a fear of being hurt by others. This fear of being hurt causes men to keep women at arm’s length to avoid being emotionally harmed. These efforts become a control mechanism—“I won’t allow you to get close enough to hurt me.” Women are initially thwarted by these men and unable to establish an emotional bond. As a result, Grant postulates, a real relationship never happens.

 Another aspect of male-female couples that further hampers the development of a close relationship is what Grant terms a woman’s hesitance to “listen to her heart.” In essence, Grant believes that a woman is consumed with the need to avoid revealing her true feelings to men. Even so, the author insists a man actually yearns to know how a woman is feeling. He just prefers those feelings be expressed to him in a way that is short and sweet.

The good news is that Grant offers plenty of advice about how to make your boyfriend want you more in The Women Men Adore. Consistently throughout the book, the author refers to how women have a natural ability to “disarm” men. Says Grant, men are attracted to women who speak to them in soft, moderated tones using brief sentences while discussing genuine feelings.

 Although some of the information Grant includes is pretty old hat: yelling turns men off, less talking from women is better than more talking, and women are emotional while men are practical, Grant does an effective job interpreting the dynamics behind these familiar notions.

 Determining whether you and your prospective partner are introverts, extroverts, or one of each will go a long way toward improving your understanding of the mechanics of your couple relationship. Also, Grant astutely identifies and stresses the relevance of timing when you want to talk with your partner about how to get your emotional needs met.

 Grant suggests women should not only perform an inventory of past relationships, but also make a “truth list” of the compliments they have received over the years from men. If women pay more attention to those compliments, their confidence will be bolstered. And this confidence will shine through, impressing and capturing men’s attentions, according to Grant.

 One valuable gem revealed in The Women Men Adore is: if women were to act more confident, men would be drawn to them and wish to remain with them. Be assured that you will gain more beneficial suggestions should you opt to read Grant’s book.

 Some readers will no doubt disagree with one of Grant’s major philosophies: women and men should not strive to be equal in love relationships. However, further reading will allow Grant to share his cogent ideas explaining how working to be complementary rather than equal will win women the men and loving relationships many of them so desperately seek.

 Bob Grant provides an incredibly informative primer in The Women Men Adore. If you are a woman who wants to learn insights about how to make your boyfriend want you more, this book is for you.

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